Congratulations to you if you have made the decision to take a second honeymoon. A second honeymoon gives a couple the opportunity to strengthen their love and the unique opportunity to reconnect with one another. It is a time to laugh, play and dream.
As you plan your second honeymoon, bear in mind that this is no ordinary vacation. It is not time for the whole family to enjoy, so let the kids know that they are not invited!
A second honeymoon is about quality time for the two of you. Open your heart to one another, keep an open mind and bring your patience, energy and enthusiasm. If you can book a honeymoon suite complete with a hot tub and champagne, then do so.
Plan a second honeymoon that you both will enjoy. All of the activities you choose should surround bringing the two of you closer together. Decide as a couple where you want to go, what your budget is and how long you wish to be away.
Make your second honeymoon a time to create new memories. There is nothing wrong with talking and reminiscing over old times, but recognize that there are good times ahead. Cherish your time together. Be greedy about your time, and do not let anything intrude upon it. If you want to sleep until noon, do so. If you want to sip wine at 10 a.m., then have fun doing it. If you want to go for pizza or ice cream at 1a.m., then by all means- go for it!
A second honeymoon is a special period of time that is set aside to be cherished. Do not let work or family concerns put a dent in the moments you have together. Clear your mind of everything else except the person you love and adore. Make that person your complete focus.
Just as best laid plans can come undone on other vacations, so can they on a second honeymoon. Whatever you do, do not forget your sense of humor at home! When you are packing the massage oil, your sexiest lingerie and your drop dead heels, make sure you bring with you the ability to laugh at yourself, and each other. You just never know what you might encounter on your trip- whether it be delays, room mix-ups, bags that go missing or a sunburn that you have tried to avoid!
