Traditionally, the bridesmaids throw the bridal shower and the bride hosts the tea party. A tea party is another pre-wedding social event which the entire bridal party gets together to enjoy tea and each other’s company. Here is a brief guide to get you started on the planning and coordinating the event.
The Plan: You can hold a bridesmaid tea luncheon anytime before or on the day of the wedding. It is preferred to select a day after your bridal shower and on a day that everyone can attend (such as a weekend evening). Once you select a day, try to stick with it.
Keep It Small and Simple: The bridesmaid tea luncheon will probably be the least stressful pre-event to plan, escpecially considering that you’re only inviting the immediate bridal party.
Host It At An Elegant Location: Since its a formal tea party, you’ll have to find a place that is elegant and serves tea. Think about holding the small party at your favorite cafe or restaurant. Its a good idea not to select a restaurant that you have not been to yet because you don’t want to book a few tables at a place for an event only to find out that it was not as you expected.
Or You Could Host It At Home: Save money and get a little creative by hosting the event at your house. Remember to set the ambience (simple tea candles and elegant whites or neutrals), food (elegant cookies or cupcakes from your favorite bakery), and of course tea (try to have at least several varieties on hand). If you don’t already have a set of fine china, ask your grandmother (or mother) if you can borrow some for the special occasion. Since this is a more low-key event, you really won’t need any music.
