These days almost anything goes (almost) when it comes to taste, style, and traditions. What used to be mandatory when your parents got married has now become optional. Reasons to forgo familiar traditions include monetary issues, cultural clashing, and even personal reasons. However, if you do find something on the list that you absolutely must do, go ahead. But if not, then feel free to skip traditions that don’t appeal to you. Here are such traditions.
Over The Top Receptions
These days the economy is tightening everyone’s budget, and thus modern brides and grooms opt for cheaper and chic alternatives. Ideas include skipping a large meal and replacing it with a cocktail party; staying in the United States for the honeymoon instead of jetting off to the Caribbean; buying cheaper (and more eco-friendly) wedding stationary. These days, less is more.
Rigid Rules
Sure, weddings are still formal, but that doesn’t mean you need to abide by certain rules if they cramp your style. Your bridesmaids don’t need to wear the same dress, they can wear dresses in the same color family. You also can ditch the arranged seating, which would not only relieve stress on your part, but it also leaves a more friendly experience for your guests.
Unnecessarily Wasteful Traditions
Want to know a little secret that saves time, money, and even the environment? Forgo useless items and replace them with something smarter like skipping the throwing rice tradition and light sparklers. And those tacky little wedding favors (something that often gets left behind or thrown away) can be replaced with acknowledging each guest at the reception. And even if you can’t, your guests will leave the wedding with memories, which is what really counts.
