May to September is a prolific time for weddings, and planning your wedding can be an all-consuming venture, so in this time of creating what you hope will become picture-perfect memories from the ceremony, don’t forget the reception. Choosing the venue, food, catering and decor for your reception are important, but do not overlook these essential components that can make your wedding reception the most memorable event of your guests’ lives.
Finding a fabulous first dance song should be easy, right? You just choose the song that was playing when the two of you met. Or the one you heard when you kissed for the first time. Perhaps the one associated with the proposal, or maybe a song that just perfectly expresses how you feel about each other. For a unique approach to the first dance song dilemma, try writing – or commissioning – an original song specifically for that event. Or check out some local artists who might be available to perform live at your reception. Music, and especially your first dance song, will set the mood for the festivities that follow.
At some point during the reception, you will be called upon to make a toast. Some couples dread this moment because they may not be comfortable speaking in front of crowds, or may just have no idea what to say. The toasts, however, are a crucial part of your reception. It is your opportunity to publicly display your appreciation for everyone in attendance. The best way to get around nerves is to be prepared. Plan well in advance what you will say. Write it down and take the time to commit it to memory. Let your best man and maid of honor speak first. This gives you time to get composed for speaking, and gives them the task of settling the crowd. Don’t worry whether your words are poignant or elegant; as long as they are concise and sincere, you’ll do well.
One additional item to consider is that, at your reception, you may not be able to give appropriate one-on-one time to each other and those closest to you, so planning an after-reception celebration may be just the ticket. Whether a meet-up at a local bar or restaurant, or a small gathering at home, your nearest and dearest will appreciate the added face-time, and you will appreciate the opportunity to unwind from the excitement and anxiety of your big day.
