Years after the wedding, it is often the music played during the ceremony and reception that is remembered the most. That is why it’s so important to select the right music, both for the ceremony and reception. You want to select song choices that are pleasing to everyone (which can be a feat in itself), songs that are fun, romantic, and enjoyable. Here are some tips on how to do just that.
The Ceremony- The music starts with the ceremony. It’s ideal to have a prelude (before), a processional (during which the bridal party and bride comes out), and a recessional (which is the ceremony conclusion). More often than not, the music played during the ceremony is classic or instrumental pieces played by an orchestral band. Other options include a pianist, a violinist, or a guitarist who plays acoustic. No matter what you choose, you’ll want to find a person (or people) to play songs with significant meaning.
The Reception- You’ve got many more options from which to choose. You can get a rocking band, a disc jockey, or you can even play your iPod play list. Sure, you want your list to be filled with romantic songs that have a significant meaning to both you and your fiancé, but you should remember a few key things when selecting the music for your reception party.
- You’ll want a wide range of music styles that everyone will enjoy. Don’t be afraid to mix seventies disco, eighties punk, and nineties folk together.
- It also would be wise to choose songs that everybody knows and love- songs like The Turtles “Happy Together” and “Funky Town” by Lipps, Inc.
- And try to keep the selections on the family friendly side (especially if there are young children at the wedding).


