Good etiquette may have all but disappeared in today’s society. Though today’s weddings are much more lax on many traditions, some rules still apply. We don’t need to send save the date cards anymore, but we still need to send out invitations. We don’t need to entertain your guests with an over-the-top elaborate event but you still need to make sure they’re comfortable and enjoy themselves. Read below for Wedding Etiquette Myths Debunked Part 1.
1- The Groom’s Family Pays For Everything
Once upon a time, the groom’s family was responsible for most, if not all, wedding expenses. Today in 2010, the financial aspect of the wedding is most often divided between the couple and both sets of parents.
2- You Should Invite Everyone You Know
A wedding is an intimate affair so it only makes since to invite those closest to you. That said, if you want a large wedding and can afford the expenses, go ahead and invite everyone, but its not mandatory.
3- You Should Cover All Guest Accommodations
You’re already paying the costs of the caterer, alcohol, cake, and entertainment, the least your guests could do is pay for their own transportation and hotel expenses.
4- If You’re Getting Married A Second Time You Must Keep The Wedding Less Formal
A lot of couples generally want to keep their second(or third) marriages smaller and more low key than the first, but thats a choice not a rule.
5- You Should Create A Child-Friendly Wedding Reception
Some people want kids at their wedding, and others don’t. There is no right or wrong answer here, but if you don’t want children at your reception, you need to find a way to make it clear without hurting anyone feelings. Send the invitations in the name of the person or couple only. Don’t include the word family as that might create confusion.
Part 2 coming next week.
