This is part two and the conclusion of Wedding Etiquette Myths Debunked. Last week I discussed issues like who pays for the wedding, whether should you invite everyone you know, and if you should cover the guests hotel accommodation expenses. Read below for more wedding myths debunked.
6- In The Age Of Modern Technology, Thank-You Notes Are Not Necessary.
The time and energy spent on selecting the perfect gift hasn’t changed, and neither should the time and energy spent on crafting a thank-you note. But that doesn’t mean you should send out pre-made thank-you notes either. Instead, buy a box of fine stationary or blank thank-you cards, and write up a heart-felt letter to show your appreciation for the gift.
7- Couples of Different Faiths Should Choose One Faith To Base The Ceremony On.
Since a wedding is all about unity, it would only make since to combine both your religious beliefs and traditions into the ceremony. Make sure that you discuss your plans and traditions with your fiance beforehand and find out if your church/synagogue/other house of worship can acommodate.
8- All Bridesmaids Must Be Female
This rule is as outdated as the rule that states that the bride must be given away by her father. If you’re a bride and your best friend (other than your fiance) happens to be male, there is nothing wrong making him a bridesman or even a man of honor.
9- If You Can’t Afford Serving Drinks At The Wedding, Offer A Cash Bar
There is nothing more tacky than asking the guests at your wedding to pay for their own cocktails and wine. If you can’t afford a bar at your wedding, then serve the basics: beer, alcohol, and non-alcoholic drinks. Another option is to offer a cocktail hour before the meal is served, and then serve wine with the meal.
